can women smell success?

[Duffdog]

So, here is the story.

I have been working this corporate job for a year and hating it more than anything.  It is boring, unchallenging and below my skill level.  Last week, I landed a new position in the bay area and let all my friends know that I was moving and starting a new life.  I am also extremely happy that I am making this change.  As soon as the news hit me that I was finally going to get out of this town I hate and start the life I always wanted, an endless (and I do mean endless) supply of females just suddenly appeared out of nowhere.  Not that I am complaining, but in less than a month I have banged more hotties than in the previous year.  In addition, two of them are dying to be my girlfriend.  It is really quite a change, but I am unaware of what specifically caused these females to just suddenly appear and somehow know that I am vastly more successful than before.

Any insight would be helpful.
 

[The Rational Male]

I thought you were self employed?

Anyway,

I am also extremely happy that I am making this change.  As soon as the news hit me that I was finally going to get out of this town I hate and start the life I always wanted, an endless (and I do mean endless) supply of females just suddenly appeared out of nowhere.  Not that I am complaining, but in less than a month I have banged more hotties than in the previous year.  In addition, two of them are dying to be my girlfriend.  It is really quite a change, but I am unaware of what specifically caused these females to just suddenly appear and somehow know that I am vastly more successful than before.

Any insight would be helpful.

You could probably attribute this to half a dozen different things, but good mood is infectious and attractive. Most chicks (even the ones who put on a really good front) secretly think their lives suck, and they are attracted to a man who has his shit together (a guy who is in a good mood is likely to have his shit together) like moths to a flame.

Back in the mid 90's I had just closed my first really sweet real estate deal. At that time my dream car was a twin turbo RX-7. I decided that it was time for me to treat myself to the car I really wanted, so I bought one.

I was high on life. I was still working in a bar, but I was well on my way to doing what I really wanted to do with my life and getting rid of my boss forever. I had a sweeeet ride, and I felt like I was the shit.

That year or so of my life was one of a handful of times in my life when pussy was "coming out of the woodwork". Was it the car? In a way, yes. But not the car itself, it was the fact that I really felt like I had made it.. I felt extremely successful, and this was projected in the way I walked, talked, and acted. Women sensed this and they were on me like a fat kid on a twinkie.

Shit, I would even venture to guess that they CAN smell it on you. I would bet that your scent changes when you go through periods like this in your life.

[DonS]

A shark can smell a single drop of blood over a mile a way.  The can also sense the electrical muscule twitches of prey buried in the sand.  A moth can detect a mate from 7 miles away.  A raptor can pick out a mouse in the grass from over a mile away.  The worker bee has a ring of iron oxide in it's body that allows it to sense and navigate the earths magnetic field.  A snake's ability to see infrared allows him to see the prey's heat signature; not only where it is, but where it has been.

Evolution has created some amazing adaptations. 

For women, they can 'sense' a man's confidence from a mile away.  Your body language, your mannerisms, your vocal tone and rate, your eye movement rate, how quickly you turn your head in response to stimuli, tension in the facial and shoulder muscles, all tell a woman everything she needs to know.  The same way a man is genetically wired to spot a hottie in a crowded room in a millisecond, a woman can spot a confident male just as quickly.  She will then send signals to you equal to the strength of attracton you generate inside her. 

Obviously you are doing well because they are chasing you and sleeping with you at a never before seen rate.  You don't look any different, but in one week your attraction level skyrocketed.  Looks are overrated for a man.  Pay the price to earn confident internal beliefs and that congruence will be transmitted externally as a 'vibe' or 'presence' that women will instictually respond to. 

The more you improve my inner game, the stonger the signals you will get from ever higher value females.  Stop chasing women and watch them come to you.  Another part of the matrix has been decoded for you.  Good Job.

[Duffdog]

With regards to beings self-employed, I did run a production company for 8 years.  This year I abandoned it because the entire industry is engaged in a "race to the bottom" and many of my competitors are going bankrupt.  I got out in time to secure myself in a new and more lucrative industry.  (Not to mention it pays 2x what owning a production company does)  The nice thing about my new position is that I will become one of the people who are un-discountable and un-outsourceable.  In short, I get to rip people off and they have to take it because there are only a handful of "me's" in the world with my skill set. 

As I type this, I am reminded that I have a lunch date with a sorority girl in a few hours.  I seem to be really short on internet time lately.  lol!

[The Rational Male]

How does the saying go? You can lose a lot of money chasing women but you won't lose a lot of women chasing money....

I'm not gonna lie. I don't feel like I am hitting my potential as a man unless I am reaching new heights. The feeling I get when I reach a new goal is intoxicating. I'm a completely different person. I ooze confidence.

I've mentioned this a few times before, but even when I was living in my rockstar townhouse with 2 slick cars in the garage and a jacuzzi on the roof, I pulled as much tail when I was around people who had no idea who I was. Women flocked to me because they sensed my value based upon subtle cues. It's pretty amazing.

The PUA community talks a lot about demonstrating value. It's probably THE most important part of attracting women.

[Duffdog]

I will go the final step in that discussion and say that it helps to actually have value when you are talking about displaying value. 

[The Rational Male]

I will go the final step in that discussion and say that it helps to actually have value when you are talking about displaying value.

I agree to an extent, however, one of the main character traits women (and people in general) use to determine value it confidence, and confidence doesn't always come from having a high current value. You can be very self assured and be broke as a joke. What matters most is that you believe in yourself that one day you will go far.

I definitely agree that having value is the ultimate aphrodisiac to women. There may be something above and beyond confidence that women notice exuding from a man who knows he has "it" 

No doubt about it though....before I had to scale things back a bit my life was completely different. Pussy was falling from the sky. Working on getting things back where they are supposed to be 

[Rex Regis]

Women can't "smell" success through any sort of biochemical means, at least as far as we know.

However...

They can sense when other males defer to you socially.

They can see who's picking up the bar tab for the group, and who's drinking what.

They can tell with far greater acuity than men who is wearing more carefully selected (i.e. expensive) clothing.

They pick up on body language and non-verbal cues which distill genuine relaxed confidence from gusto and Game.

They can perceive current testosterone levels through minor physical changes induced by its effects, such as tightness of the facial muscles, a deeper voice, and the slightly detached look of a hunter with a heightened state of alertness.

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These alpha characteristics may not be indicative of success, but certainly there is a correlation between success and alpha characteristics. When others treat you as alpha women will assume it as truth.